I’m writing to update you on my last post which was about my fiance. About six months ago now I made a post laying out his problem with deciding he doesn’t like things and then desperately needing to see change. He would randomly begin to dislike something for no particular reason, which he would then be happy to spend thousands of our joint money on to ‘fix.’
When I last left you, he had just decided that he didn’t like our kitchen and began discussions with a kitchen designer. What I didn’t tell you in my last post was that this was going to be my fiance’s last chance. I’ll admit that the kitchen design he came up with was very nice. It worked well in the space and I liked it, but it really wasn’t needed. I was happy to let this go as long as it was going to be the last time something like this would ever happen. Well unfortunately, four months after the completed remodel and two months before our wedding, it happened again.
This time, he decided that he didn’t like our bathroom. As soon as he decided that, he started going off about how urgently we needed bathroom renovations. Melbourne bathroom renovations are expensive and certainly something we couldn’t afford just two months out from our wedding. Unfortunately, I had no choice but to break up with him once I was certain that he wasn’t going to change.
I won’t lie to any of you. I’m absolutely devastated that we’ve broken up. He was the love of my life but this is something that I just can’t get over. He would make us broke within the first five years of our marriage, and I can’t let him pull me down. I had him buy me out of the home that we bought together, so that he can do as many renovations as he would like… without me.